Should I stay or should I go? Readers might recognize that phrase as a song lyric. In the context of divorce, it aptly refers to the difficulty in deciding which issues to fight or settle.
Since the potential for stress is already very high when going through a divorce, why add to it?
Wisdom may be a product of age and experience. After a divorce, one might expect an individual to be wiser from that experience. If an individual does find love again, the lessons learned from the first marriage might prove useful.
In a divorce, a spouse may need to advocate strongly for his or her position on matters of spousal support, asset valuations and property division. If children are involved, additional discussion will be required about child custody and visitation arrangements.
Conventional wisdom may advise against mixing love and money, but the reality is that some married couples might become business partners. In fact, Census Bureau data indicates that 3.7 million small businesses are co-owned by married couples. So what happens to a business if a couple decides to divorce?
Readers may have heard of the seven-year itch. In terms of marital happiness, the seven-year milestone may represent a turning point or a hallmark of marital stability and bliss.
Readers of this divorce blog know that divorce can be expensive, especially if matters like valuing and dividing the marital estate, child support and alimony are hotly contested. Yet a recent finding may surprise readers.
For many married couples in Massachusetts, the end of their marriage is unthinkable. Even if statistics prove that it is likely that more than half of all marriage in the United States will end in divorce, some couples do not believe in thinking about or preparing for the possibility of divorce. This can make the reality of divorce a very difficult and complex time. This is especially true if the couple cannot agree on their finances.
Married couples in Massachusetts understand that the divorce process requires much decision-making. Even after dissolution, the need to make major choices does not cease. The end of a marriage often means still dealing with post-divorce issues. Whether it is child custody disputes, alimony payments or just simply moving on with life, various family law issues can persist long after a divorce is finalized. This is often true for those going through a second or third marriage.
Emotions exist at the beginning and end of most things. This is often true for marriages. Many Massachusetts couples would concur that the honeymoon stage of any relationship is a time of much happiness, joy and excitement. When these initial emotions fade, the couple could develop a long lasting, strong and loving relationship. For others, it is a time where it is apparent that the two are not right for one another and they make the decision to divorce. If the couple has children, this could cause various divorce issues such as custody disputes.