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Avoiding common financial mistakes when getting a divorce

When spouses in Massachusetts are pursuing a divorce, there are precautions they can take in order to keep the process as simple as possible. The effects of the end of a marriage can continue on long after the divorce decree is finalized, especially when it comes to financial matters. Due to this, there are some major issues spouses should avoid during the process.

Saving money when a marriage ends

When a long-term marriage ends in Massachusetts or across the nation, one person might need to pay spousal support, especially if there is a significant discrepancy in the earnings between the two. Even when alimony is a likely factor, the other party might contest it. However, the expenses and related legal fees needed to do this might be prohibitive and could wind up costing the parties more than the actual spousal support.

Keep long-term plans in mind when going through divorce

Divorce is a very difficult time in anyone's life. Regardless of who initiated the proceeding, it is easy to get caught up in a battle of who gets more money in the settlement, especially if there is some animosity tied to the split. Whatever fuels this fight for cash, it is wise to keep the big picture in mind when going through a divorce.

How to avoid major divorce issues during dissolution


Emotions exist at the beginning and end of most things. This is often true for marriages. Many Massachusetts couples would concur that the honeymoon stage of any relationship is a time of much happiness, joy and excitement. When these initial emotions fade, the couple could develop a long lasting, strong and loving relationship. For others, it is a time where it is apparent that the two are not right for one another and they make the decision to divorce. If the couple has children, this could cause various divorce issues such as custody disputes.

Co-parenting and the best interest of a child post-divorce


When something bad or upsetting occurs, usually those around the individual sense their emotion and can be affected. This is often the case when parents are struggling with their marriage and the bystander children are impacted. Their marital disputes lead to a separation and eventually a divorce, which can cause significant life changes for everyone involved. Realizing the impact on a child does not only better the situation for the child or children but for the parents as well. Parents in Massachusetts as well as in other states across the nation should focus on working through this transition together so that the best interest of the child can be met.

Divorced parents getting along during the holidays


Families in Massachusetts understand the importance of togetherness and spending quality time with one another. This is especially true during the holiday season. It is not only expected but also desired to carry out holiday traditions. But a divorce or a separation could pose some problems when it comes to continuing family traditions. This could create emotions and disputes regarding who gets to see the children on what day and for how long. As a result, parenting time is often a huge issue and a focal point post-divorce. Fortunately, if it is approached properly, both parties could reach an amicable agreement.

Delaying a divorce could help save money


Couples in Massachusetts often have difficult decisions to make as individuals and as a couple. This is true during the marriage and if they decide to dissolve their union. When spouses argue and are unable to agree on many topics, divorce legal issues could present themselves. Disputes and emotions often get in the way of making rational and practical decisions. This could cause a long, drawn-out divorce or it could result in an improper divorce agreement. During the divorce process, it is important that soon-to-be ex-spouses attempt to effectively communicate so they can reach an amicable divorce settlement.

The importance of prenups and postnups for stay at home mothers


There are many things to consider when it comes to entering a relationship. Marriage requires the same thought process, and several married couples in Massachusetts consider written instruments to help instill the decisions they made prior to or during the marriage. A prenuptial agreement and postnuptial agreement can help layout important factors and could end up to be a very crucial document in a divorce. Whether it is property division or the amount of spousal support an ex will receive, these agreements could help lower disputes during the dissolution of a marriage.

Divorcing during the holidays


There is no ideal time for a couple to part ways, but married couples in Massachusetts understand that if a couple must separate, a divorce is most likely the next step to take. Unfortunately, a couple's breaking point could land near the holidays. This can make an already difficult time more challenging but can also take away some of the joy and happiness of the holidays.

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